tie-red, tie-red after the holidays this year, altho it’s no different than every other year (in terms of tired), and even not so bad as last year or two. also, in general, i feel better about the holidays this year. setting aside the Turkey Day Traffic Debacle (ameliorated by high grade pharmeceuticals), we pretty much got to do what we wanted, saw most everyone, made plans to see others, and didn’t feel overly rushed. not bad, eh?
(please forgive me if this is a bit disjointed… i have a plethora of ideas running around in my head, and want to get some of them out just to be writing. interesting thing about journals/blogs – while we certainly get an insight into somebody’s life, it never really reflects all of the stuff fermenting in their brain. oh, if i could just harness my focus and *write*…)
note to self: hamsters could care less about the color of the cage. bins are far easier to clean, are perfectly sufficient from the animal’s point of view, and the modular cages exist primarily for the amusement of the humans.
we are living in Wild Kingdom territory these days: 4 fish, 3 hamsters, 2 lizards, 1 frog, 1 cat, and a partridge in a pear tree. i think it’s all lovely. hubby may feel otherwise, but he kindly keeps his peace, and in turn, i happily clean up the coffee grinds and magic props. (found a foam hot dog in the sofa last week, and a rubber chicken the week before.)
one of my hammies, alphonse pigwidgeon, is now diabetic (an occupational hazard of Campbell’s dwarves). and he also contracted an infection… so he’s on antibiotics for a week, and a diabetic diet after that. ask me sometime how you dose a 1 ounce hamster with oral antibiotics. 🙂
New Years – all good. Medium Small up to his mom’s, hubby working, me over at Chica Bean’s parents to play Turbo Cranium. the game certainly gave me an insight into how incestuous our (me and Chica) relationship is, after nearly 20 years; wish i had a pic of the squiggle she drew with her eyes closed, and i guessed (correctly) ‘mermaid!’. apparently, we are never allowed to be on the same team, ever again. 🙂
shite over the last week or so – MedSm spent part of Xmas day in the emergency room, after closing his finger in his mom’s car door – which he had locked. his mom called us, and we ended up going up to see how he was and to give her a break (she shot off to the restroom as soon as we got there). all fine, nothing broken, and mostly he was annoyed by only having 8 fingers (the bruised one was taped to the next one over). i did find some humor in the fact that cherry cough medicine and scrambled eggs comes back up as pink froth, but felt badly that MedSm spent any part of Xmas barfing in a parking lot.
also spent one day this past week incredibly overwhelmed, sad, crying, and feeling like i shouldn’t be a parent some days. my mom assures me that *every* parent has days like this, which made me feel better. she also said that sometimes it’s days on end – which didn’t make me feel any better, but made me laugh. thank goddess that we’re close enough that i can lean on her once in a while for a parent/sanity check. i love my mom to pieces for many reasons, and this is one of them.
what else, what else… we’re going up to see hubby’s family next weekend, which should be great fun… MedSm’s living situation at his mom’s has changed again (all the stepbrothers are gone, for an indeterminate time)… am already redesigning the front garden for next season, and redid the birdfeeder situation in anticipation…
and i’m deleriously happy about my new music. 8) cleaned out the CD racks, took a bunch of things up to Newbury Comics to resell, and spent much of what i earned before leaving the store. (also, an interesting experience having MedSm with me there – ‘no, you can’t look at those books. no, you can’t look at those pins. no, you can’t pierce your nose. yes – you can look at those toys – except that one. no, i won’t explain why. your mom has a Happy Bunny book? i suddenly like your mom a whole lot more. no, you can’t get the bb gun – you’d shoot your eye out with that thing.’
in any event… it’s been *ages* since i bought myself a new album. so, flush with newfound wealth, i splurged on many toys for MedSm, an album and movie for hubby, and Mike Doughty’s new album – Haughty Melodic. ohhhhhh… ohhhhh… man oh man. brilliant lyrics, fantastic music, a voice i haven’t heard from in a few years… i am incredibly happy. amazing how intensely satisfying a new, good album can be.
I want to be your absolute ultimate
Want to be your only one now
Feel the wave come up from your sulkiness
Feel the rays you radiate now
Sweet and plain unsingable name
That rings in my mind now
That strums me like a string
Shine, unsingable name
Over everything
one of the outcomes of the New Year’s Eve games? my cleavage has its own home movie. no, i won’t post it. yes, i will tell the story. mañana, iguana.
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